Flirting is stupid.

According to Dictionary.com;

flirt

[flurt]  –verb (used without object)

1. to court triflingly or act amorously without serious intentions; play at love; coquet.
2. to trifle or toy, as with an idea: She flirted with the notion of buying a sports car.
3. to move with a jerk or jerks; dart about: butterflies flirting from flower to flower.

Flirting is stupid, I’ve recently decided. It’s an unreliable measure of someone’s interest in you.

Tonight I realized that I have been flirting a lot, and I don’t want to flirt anymore.

I pointed out to Austin that two people exchange winking smilies, it is a flirtatious act. A one sided winking smiley isn’t so bad, but when it is reciprocated.. that is when things get kind of sketch and babies are made.

So in conclusion, I am no longer exchanging winking smilies with boys (including Austin!!), and I am going to try harder to be more obvious about my intentions. This kind of stuff can really screw with someone.. and I would like to not be a facilitator of that kind of thing.

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